There’s a lot of things I don’t quite understand. One of those things just happens to be how people can be so clueless. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a blonde so I’m pretty oblivious to everything, but there’s some people out there who can’t understand obvious hints.
Here’s my philosophy.
I used to be friends with a group of people. Simple enough. We were pretty close. Then they decided to do me wrong. They hurt my feelings, made me feel like crap and expected me to be alright with it and deal with it. Eventually, I ditched them and got some better friends. It took a lot to do that. Since I thought nobody else would accept me or like me. I found people who actually care about me and will protect me when I’m in trouble. My old friends never reached out to me, never asked if I was okay, never seemed to care. They quit talking to me completely and started acting like I don’t even exist. Yeah, that hurt, but it was easier for me to get over it. I found my worth and learned I didn’t need them.
I went a few months without talking to them. I was starting to get a lot better. I still had them on social media and I had their phone numbers. Some odd amount of time ago, some of them tried contacting me again. I left them on read, ignored the phone calls. I know my worth now and I wasn’t about to be sucked back into that drama.
Well somebody asked me the other day, “Why don’t we hangout anymore?” In my head I was combusting. Hmmm, I wonder why we don’t hangout. Why can’t you look at the signs? I don’t answer your calls, I leave you on read, no I’m not in a bad mood. I don’t wanna freaking talk to you! I don’t need you in my life. Once you’ve done me dirty I don’t deal with your crap anymore Susan. But all I could mutter was “I don’t know.”
I’m not trying to be mean, but I don’t deal with that anymore. I used to be the kind of person who would give a million second chances before I would learn that some people will never change. During that time I was used and hurt a lot.
So the moral to this rant is I don’t really don’t understand how people mange to miss so many obvious signs like that. I guess some people just lack the brain cells.